When I experience living in the shelter. I realized it a privilege; staying out of people face is always best. two grown folks can't live in the same house. were not build to live with other people, unless is with your spouse or other. Many feel as if its an obligation that family, friends should help, it is nice they do but leaving parents house is to become independent. People not being selfish. it is a bounty issue that causes a negative effect on some people. so, go to a shelter with a respect that we can get help, unlike other country cant get.